How to Build An Attractive Self-Image
Your Feelings Betray You
Women tend to follow their intuition when it comes to men, and come to think of it often, many other things as well. You’ve heard of ‘women’s intuition.’ That means they listen to their feelings about a potential guy (whereas we tend to listen with something else entirely).
If you can make a woman feel the way she wants, she will be powerfully attracted to you. But first you have to understand what it is she wants to feel, this becomes a whole lot easier, and a whole section in my book has been created for you to understand what motivates women at a fundamental level.
Working Her Expectations
For instance, once you understand that a woman desires a man who seems most likely to be able to deliver the fantasies she has been genetically and socially programmed to expect, you can understand that even if you are not born into money, power, or fame, if you can get her to FEEL the feelings inspired by those characteristics, she will respond.
She will treat you like you are rich, famous, and powerful!
Yes, looks can REALLY help, but certainly not in most cases. Just look at, say, Lyle Lovette and Mick Jagger to name a few. These are NOT conventionally handsome men, but beautiful women worship them.
Why?
Because the fact that they are rich, famous, and powerful and inspire the FEELINGS in women that they have been hardwired and programmed with.
For Those of Us on Plant Earth
Of course, not all of us can be rock stars—most of us are much more average in appearance and means. So how do we get beautiful women to respond to us as those we were rich, powerful, and famous?
Women are more interested, for the most part, in feelings than in looks. Really. I’m serious.
You have to start acting like you are the best thing that could ever happen to a woman, if you have money and means then you have an additional advantage, but if you don’t, you are like just about everyone else and need to start behaving like the kind of man that will make a woman feel (often without her even first realizing it) like, “Yes, this man is probably the type of man I want.”
And this all starts with one very simple thing: BELIEF. You have to make a leap of faith.
Feeling Like You’re God’s Gift to Women
You have heard the saying that dogs can smell fear?
This is a simplification of the fact that animals such as horses are better able to note the subtle cues other creatures give off when they are afraid. For instance, you just can’t really fake bravery in front of a dog. If you are scared, they'll know—and women are no different.
Appeal to Their Nature
Remember that the evolutionary strategy followed by women is to exert influence not through brute strength, but through manipulation and politicking. Thus, women have had tens of thousands of years (maybe even longer) to develop their perception of subtle body cues (remember how they often heavily analyze even the smallest details of a celebrity stud).
If you just try to act the part, you will not be nearly as effective as you will be when you start to have true belief. Maybe there was a message for us guys in those Disney and Hollywood films after all…‘you have to believe in yourself.’
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